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Redmond Christian Counseling

A Christian Perspective on Solid and Healthy Relationships

Everyone struggles with relationships at one time or another. But do you struggle to form any kind of relationship at all? Do your friendships leave you feeling empty inside? You might think that relationships should be easy, but the reality is that they require a lot of work. If you are frustrated with your relationships, you should know that you don’t have to struggle alone. Christian counseling for relationships can help you develop the strong, healthy connections you desire.

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Christian Counselor Redmond

Aug
2025
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Subtle Signs of a Bad Friendship

Christian Counselor Redmond

Subtle Signs of a Bad Friendship Friendships are meant to be a source of joy and support, but sometimes they can feel more like a spirited game of dodgeball – where you’re just trying to avoid the emotional hits. It’s easy to spot the loud red flags in friendships, but what about those sneaky, subtle signs that your friend might not be the best match for you? Let’s take a look at some telltale signs that could suggest that it’s time to reevaluate that friendship – because, as the Bible says, “Iron sharpens iron” (Proverbs 27:17) and you deserve friends who help you shine. The Spiritual Drifter If a friend...

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Priscila Paul

Aug
2025
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How Your Attachment Style Influences Your Relationships

Priscila Paul

Attachment theory is one of the most acknowledged psychological theories in the last fifty years (Shaver & Mikulincer, 2009). Bowlby, one of the theorists who developed this theory, believed that every person is born with an attachment behavioral system that is wired for survival. The goal of the attachment system is to attain protection and support from those around us in dangerous situations, and it is vital early in life because babies and young children are unable to defend themselves from danger (Shaver & Mikulincer, 2009). Yet, researchers believe that we do not grow out of our attachment style as we age, but rather, it is the blueprint and foundation...

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Having had the opportunity to observe Mali Hawkins MS, LMFTA, caring for people in many different situations, it’s easy to state that she is exceptionally gifted to listen, stay present, encourage and wisely counsel others.

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Everyone is a little tangled up. One of the worst things is that we sometimes can’t see how we’re tangled up, so we struggle to make sense of our own stories.  Chris has helped to clarify things for me.  By observing where issues were linked and noting how stories were related, Chris helped me to see how connected things are.

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I often quote the things you said in our sessions, both to (my spouse) and to myself as we go along. It was a wonderful season of counseling, and the balance of my life will be better for having spent the time with you.

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Chris has been and continues to be helpful in getting my life back together after an unwanted divorce of a 23 year marriage. I would recommend him to anyone of ny faith, but especially a Christian.

With a sister and a mother who both work as therapists, and a father who works as a pastor, I am an unusual case for any therapist to take on. Many would assume I have the support I need to work through any trial life brings my way.

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