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A Christian Perspective on Solid and Healthy Relationships

Everyone struggles with relationships at one time or another. But do you struggle to form any kind of relationship at all? Do your friendships leave you feeling empty inside? You might think that relationships should be easy, but the reality is that they require a lot of work. If you are frustrated with your relationships, you should know that you don’t have to struggle alone. Christian counseling for relationships can help you develop the strong, healthy connections you desire.

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Becky Pedersen

Apr
2025
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Powerful Responses to Gaslighting in Relationships

Becky Pedersen

Gaslighting is a form of manipulation that messes with your mind and emotions, making you second guess your reality. It can make you question your memories, beliefs, and even your sanity. A skilled gaslighter has an interesting and sophisticated set of techniques to draw from. The gas lighter might deny facts, even though the victim is confident of the truth. They might twist the truth just enough that it retains its form but also paints themselves in a more positive light. A gaslighter might blame the victim and use emotional manipulation to gain control, in turn making the victim feel guilty for something they never did. The unfortunate outcome is...

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Dr. Shane Patrick

Mar
2025
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Recipe for Recovery: Practical Strategies to Reset After an Emotional Affair

Dr. Shane Patrick

When we make our marital vows and declare that we will forsake all others, we tend to view it as a nod to the threats that infidelity poses. What we assume is that an affair is physical. However, Jesus revealed that what happens in the body first occurs in the mind (Matthew 5:27-28). It’s the same with an emotional affair. It may seem intense, but we commit adultery, stepping outside of our marriage, when we share a part of ourselves and our affections with someone who isn’t our spouse. An emotional affair can happen subtly, and we don’t always realize that we have crossed into dangerous territory. Emotional affairs can...

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