Codependency

Codependency: A Closer Look from a Christian Perspective

Lisa Coleman

“Keeping up with the Joneses” is a phrase most of us have heard and many have attempted, in one form or another. Besting our neighbors or at least trying to keep pace with other people’s lifestyles predates social media and reality television. However, as internet outlets abound and technologies advance, an existing human bent toward “othering,” preoccupying ourselves with others, is ever noticeable. On one hand, we view others through a skewed lens: to blame, to idolize, to envy, to emulate. We consume, binge, and even judge their habits, appearances, choices, and more. On the other hand, we are preoccupied with devoting our efforts and energies to pleasing and placating...